The B-tch Click

• The B-tch Click is the newest addition @ jdslayton.com! Why...because men say that's what I am so I thought I would own that shiz. Why not? Right! Exactly. Hmmmm, what's the meaning of this?
• Bebee. Chair bears care. The Scorpio Code. Please Don't. But my fake brother is in the fantasy FBI and if you don't submit to my perpetual online stalking of your person, I will tell my pseudo brobert to hunt you down like a zombie chases after brain.
• Oh, my world.
• F-ck ALL Men. I tried to be nice to them, but it just doesn't work that way for me and men. I will own it here and now, and every day forward. Good.
• I've been stalked and harassed and manipulated online for some time now. Yars and yars actually; by the same man; who has plenty of time and money on his hands. All because I was nice to a man and tried online dating and social media "ships".
• Don't do it, ladies. It's NOT worth it in this day and age. Things have really gotten bad in the modern age of online dating. See, the good men spend their lifetimes building the kind of life they want to live in the future. They don't just f-ck around and not care about anyone or go throughout life treating everyone as if they're disposable. No, because men who do that end up alone in their sixties wishing and hoping for some "good woman" to come along and desire to take on the heavy burden of their old age.
• They spend the prime of their life living how they want to live...and treating people how they feel like treating them - aka: shiz wrapped in shiz - instead of treating people the same as how they want to be treated, and then, they get desperate towards the end...when they wake up one day all alone, and nobody they know wants anything to do with them.
• Then, that one woman comes along when they are in those desperate years, and the man tries to place the heavy burden of his entire life (and the mistakes he made along the way -- by not building and tending to, and nurturing a family like all those good men do) on that one woman -- as if. #clueless
• Nope. You're not putting that on me.
• There are two kinds of men in the world.
• The kind of men who spend their lives caring and being attentive and nurturing their family and their home and their marriage and their wife and children.
• That is their priority from the time they first commit to the responsibility of having a family and building a life around a family.
• Those men end up happy and fulfilled and content with loved ones surrounding them in their latter years. They are busy spending their time with family and doing things together and NOT being on the internet searching for..."love"...
• You won't find the good men on the internet in the modern day looking for love because the good men are busy NOT on the internet, because they are spending real time with the family they love and built along the way.
• Then, there are the men who build nothing but themselves along the way. They don't care about anyone or anything but themselves. They always find a way to blame all the women they ever knew. It was her fault. She was a bad woman. She cheated, She lied, She did me wrong.
• She was a bad mom, a bad girlfriend, a bad sister, a bad wife, a bad daughter...spoken as if he had nothing to do with any of that.
• Sometimes, no...a man doesn't have anything to do with a woman being "bad", as she was most likely "bad" long before the man entered her life, but also, there are times, when a woman is good and decent and honest and humble, but she is ultimately molded into this worse version of herself (which the man considers "bad") because of some negative interaction or experience or influence that she had with a man -- or men.
• And it's NOT always just a guy she dated or a guy she has a sexual encounter with or a guy she fell in love with or married or had children with.
• Sometimes, it can also be family members and relatives. Sometimes, a woman becomes a worse version of herself -- or a seemingly "bad" person because of a man in her family and his behaviors toward her.
• It's not always non-blood. Sometimes, it is directly the people blood related to you.
• But those men who spend the prime of their lives on themselves...
• Those are the men you will find "looking for love" on the internet after their prime is long gone.
• A man will go from "you're so beautiful" as his intro statement to "you're a b-tch" in sixty seconds flat once he finds out you don't want his p-nis inside of you. You're a lady until you speak your mind about his behaviors concerning you. You're his friend until he finds out you'll never be more.
• A man thinks you're cool until you tell him you're not interested in him physically or sexually or romantically. A man will guilt trip you because you don't want to be with him like that...call you crazy, cut you down. He'll use threaten tactics like, "I'll find someone better." and "I'll move on." As if he's doing you some big favor by pursuing you, as if you don't just simply enjoy being single.
• As if because you're a woman, you MUST desire having a relationship with a man...and having a man in your life 24/7. But some women don't, you see.
• It's all their male entitlement and how that dictates how they treat women on the daily.
• But if they were such a great guy, why didn't someone else scoop them up. If they are such a great catch, how did they end up all alone? Exactly.
• Men want us to believe their male entitlement is the "real deal" so we will take the bait like a slice of man cake laced with mace, but I kid you not, it's the biggest dupe since cake was put into cups and still called cake.
• There is no cake. It's all been baked in some heavy sipping cream of make-believe, to make us think a certain thing so we will submit to the idea that we are inferior. But, we are not, ladies. This is 2024.
• Just because men haven't acknowledged our equality doesn't make us unequal. #slay

Bonus Slay~Notes of the Day:

• Keep in mind, ladies...it's incredibly difficult (but not impossible) for a man and woman to be just friends.
• In my personal experience, there's some sort of underlying sexual energy, so it becomes an "elephant in the room" that can't be avoided.
• It's worse for "good looking" women (or sexy women) because men generally have sexual thoughts about whatever good looking woman is in their lives.
• It's more difficult for a "sexy" woman to be just friends with a man. The attempt to have a friendship with a man, when you are a sexy woman, is futile to say the least, and ends up making the woman feel lesser or bad about herself, because the man ends up making her feel like her worth is nothing unless she's willing to put out - despite there being a total lack of physical chemistry and mutual attraction.